I'm working extra-hard on this one. We've had a tough year. Moving, loss, stress, illness, hospitals. I tend to throw myself great big pity parties, but I've recently learned that that only brings me more misery. I'm trying to focus on my blessings in everyday life, and there are multitudes. (And not just because it's Thanksgiving!) ;) Being a tactile person, it helps me to write things down, and these writings also serve as daily reminders of my many, many blessings.